Nobody's Perfect

Full text, no image entry. Take your time to read it through. It's all about me and what I think.


I'm sure you've chanced upon this caption on one of the shirts, "Nobody's Perfect, I am Nobody", which I think it's absolutely...

BULLSHIT!

There isn't a single soul who is flawless. Anyway, if you're wondering how in the world I came up with this entry, I was thinking of my past & present, and realised the many flaws I had in me, physically. (Since most of us judge a person by their physical outlook FIRST. Don't say no because you'll be lying if you said so.)


#1- WHITE HAIRS!
Yes, sad to say, I do have white hairs. Some say white hairs appear due to stress, which I beg to differ. Even up till today, I do not have much stress. And some say it's genetic? I had to agree. My dad had lots of white hairs when he's still around. My bro has lots of it too! Everytime I cut my hair, I had to dye it to a different colour. Tedious, but to save myself from the embarrassment and the endless questionings, I'd rather spend that 15 mins to do so. And this leads to..


#2- DAMAGED HAIR!
I used to have smooth and silky hair when I was young, but not anymore. I think it's due to excessive dyeing of hairs. Not forgetting that I actually bleached and dyed it during late January. All for the sake of being much better looking.



#3- HAIRSTYLE
Never easy to style my hair because I've got this weird head shape that many hairstylist couldn't comprehend too. As my hair grows longer, I'll have this weird helmet/bowl hair look-a-like and I had to style my hair in such a way to flatten it. Or shaved it so it'll look better, which explains why I usually shaved the side.



#4- COMPLEXTION
I've been trying ways and means to regain back the smooth complexion I used to have, but nothing can be done. I've got acne marks on my face, and nothing I do can eradicate that. I look damn cui under the sun too.


#5- EYEBAGS & DARK CIRCLES
No matter how much I sleep, even with 12 hours of rest per day, it still stays. I really hope the Nivea eyeroller I bought does wonders to it. But I'm glad my friend said that it looks so much better as compared to the past. And to avoid the unnecessary embarrassment, I had to put on the specs so people won't take much notice of my eyes. "Your eyes is mesmerizing". A couple of friends told me this but now, not anymore I supposed.


#6- CROOKED TEETH
I've always wanted to put on braces. I don't know why but I just got this crooked teeth on the lower layer of it. I'm also going for whitening if I have the money to!



#7- HAIRY MONSTER
My legs are covered with hairs. It might not be a problem to many of you but to me, it is a major problem. I wanna look clean and hygienic. Anyway, many guys in Singapore are undergoing waxing, that includes me too. Despite the pain, but I feel really good after undergoing the treatment. The person even suggested me to undergo IPL, which is the laser treatment to PERMANENTLY remove the hairs on my legs. Yay!


After listing all these, I feel so much inferior. Even good looking guys have their flaws too. I ain't gonna mention names, but there's a couple I can describe..


(a) Damn good looking but with buck tooth
(b) Nice complexion, nice build but with a somewhat average look
(c) Total hot stud but short.


Which would you prefer? Neither. No one is born perfect. Then again, accept what God has given you cause it's all natural gifts from heaven. Wait, I ain't preaching. This is just a saying I've heard somewhere.

"BABY I WAS BORN THIS WAY". 

Right..

And after all these, it came to me again why people doesn't like me. Not in general, but more of a love context. Is it because of all the flaws I have? Or was it because of my character?

A leopard never change its spots.

I don't deny this, but everyone deserves a second chance, don't you think so? Why harp on the past when everyone has the capability of changing to a better person? I know, a certain of you doesn't buy this but then again, if you choose to condemn him/her because of the past, and not giving him/her a chance to change, think about yourself. You're nowhere near perfect too. I'm not voicing out because I want to rant. I'm voicing it out to everyone who thinks that people can never change.

SCREW YOU IF YOU HAVE THIS MINDSET!

Ugly people, short people, fat people, we're all human beings. We have a heart- we feel, we care, we react. The only thing that identify us from every individual is the way we response to all these. Some take it personally, while others chose not to care. It all depends on how you look at all these.

I'm bad-tempered, and I'm trying to change to be a better person. At the very least, I've learnt not to backstab people around me, I've learnt to cherish my friends, I've learnt to love, to care, and to show concern.

Please, pretty please, if you're feeling inferior, DON'T BE. There's so much better things in the world that makes you happy, that needs you most. Brace up and move on! Every steps you take makes you a better person!